Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Don't marry a twin.

Hubby's 40th birthday is coming up and he's a twin. Hubby doesn't want a big bash, his twin doesn't want a big bash but the rest of the family do. Personally I don't care so long as he is happy, I do think he should do a family thing for the aunts & uncles some of which aren't well. But the rest is up to him and what he wants. The monster in law is pushing for something at her house - what ever. One of his brothers that lives at glenfield told hubby last night he should have it at his house because its in the middle for everyone, I think he needs map reading lessons, I know he needs lesson in how to stop being a complete knob. I wish they would all just go far away and stay there. Hubby and his twin would rather put the money on the credit cards or the house or something they want and not spend $5000 on a party. It just gets sillier every week.
Tomorrow is my final trip to the dentist and I'm shitting myself. Dad got his varicose veins done last week so he can't mind S3, the monster in law is going on holidays so she can't help (not a surprise). There are mums that could take him, but this is their one free day to go out, so I feel very slack to lob S3 on them. So S3 is going to occasional care for 3 hours. So at least I'll have two things to share the stress. If I make to tomorrow afternoon without someone finding me in a little ball on the ground crying I'll be happy. I think that's why the birthday stuff has given me such a dose of the shits. At least Hubby has a full day teaching tomorrow at TAFE. He finally came clean with his work that he has a second job at TAFE, so he feels better. Now all we need is for it to be permanent, just be patient. To top it all off, I bought the cordless phone from work home today, good one.

2 comments:

Narelle said...

Hey There,
You poor darlin. It is a case of when it rains it pours. We are happy to take Sam if you would like us to. I didn't realise what was happening. We can have him if it makes it any easier on you.
Hope that all goes well.
Love Ya Long Time
Rell

danielle said...

Just breath it will get better eventually. I had thought through a Sam friendly day, so it's not too late if you prefer. On the other hand if he is in care I can always come and hold your hand, mop your brow or laugh at you if you prefer. If the rels insist on a party hubby doesn't want I can always make a special cake full of laxatives if you like. Won't get you out of the party but will give you a laugh.

Dan xxx